names, names, names

Parents so often agonize over names for their new baby. Of course, it is forever and can have an impact on their own self image. I think that I made one mistake with my four, at least from his perspective. That is the only complaint that I have heard. I think that family names are nice if they are names which will not make them cringe when they introduce themselves for the rest of their life. My name was my great grandmother's name, nice thought but to this day, I do the cringe when introducing myself to new people. Something that you just can't not feel. Also, if it is a trendy name, and a good idea to check those lists on the web or ask your pediatrician if it is a popular name at the time, think of the Jason A, Jason B and Jason C in first grade. Also when you have several, don't name them similar names that will be hard for people to remember as they grow up. I know a family who have Brett and Barry and for the longest time, I had difficulty remembering which was which. I think that most men like regular names. My son, the one who doesn't like his name, said that he had never met a guy with one of those exotic names that was worth anything. I don't know if that is accurate but most men would chose a Bill, John, Sam, Bob name if given the chance. What you think? I remember that my mother said that I could have any name for my children that I chose, that they were all the same price. But, think of the child and how it will impact their self image. Oh, don't overlook initials also. Sometimes it is nice to have a monogram somewhere. I have a friend whose married name made her monogram ASS. Can't even help that with the last name in the middle. No monograms for her. Remember, it is your choice, make it carefully. Their name will soon connect with them.